nctbitten:

it’s absolutely remarkable to me how trends (especially aesthetic ones) on tumblr spread like a viral disease. not that’s it’s necessarily a bad thing, but suddenly EVERYONE is doing the same stuff and while that is OKAY (i mean, if it’s pretty, people do it, that’s fine) it’s also RIDICULOUS how some people think that anyone that isn’t following the “cool kids trend” are not “good enough”. i actually heard someone saying once “i would rp with them but i don’t want my blog on their blog bc their blog is ugly and it’ll ruin my aesthetic”.
honestly, your blog can have the freaking default tumblr theme, i’ll still rp with you if i dig your writing (because rp is about writing, not about icons/background themes/coding).